Thread:BunsenH/@comment-25404524-20160409222505/@comment-25404524-20160410050303

BunsenH wrote: From my point of view, I was repeatedly attacked by someone who refused to consider that my point of view had any validity at all. S/he tried to get me banned by Belthazar, then tried to get both me and Belthazar banned by Sannse. When Sannse told him/her that s/he was being unreasonable, s/he lashed out at Sannse. When that didn't get anywhere, s/he suddenly went all sweetness-and-light while still refusing to admit doing anything wrong.

While I was being accused of things that were some combination of ludicrous and appallingly offensive, I walked away from the yelling and got on with solving the problem.

Now that person has stormed off in a huff.

I recognize the behaviour pattern from some thoroughly toxic people who have caused a lot of damage in my local science fiction fan group. I decline to play. If you feel the need to take some time away, I'm sorry you feel that way, but I truly do not believe that that person has reasonable grievances. Quite the opposite.

I don't think I've done anything tyrannical.

And that "you have been warned" stuff is itself pretty offensive.

This "tyranny" thing was about your not listening to the community's opinions.