User blog comment:Skwerrel/Reccomendations for wishingtorch.com and other thoughts/@comment-24642411-20140411190322

'''I meant to post this here yesterday, but there was some mix up so I'm trying again. *fingers crossed*'''

The fake lighting is probably the most frustrating aspect of wishingtorch, but it may just be something we have to live with. I think most of us know who the fake lighters are, at least who the worst offenders are. Olivia has a pretty good system for identifying them, and I trust her judgement when she names someone as a faker. I think it's important to remember that this is a game. It's a silly little app that we can throw away some free time on, so be mindful that you don't take things too seriously. If you find yourself getting frustrated with an aspect of the game (and I don't mean how difficult it is to breed Ethereals), step back and take a deep breath. It's just a game and you can play it however you want. The torch lighting is helpful, but it's not a guarantee that you will breed a specific monster. As a matter of fact, I've had the best luck with breeding without all of my torches lit (or even most, for that matter). If you're getting frustrated with someone for not playing the game the way you choose to play yours, just delete them. Some of us are Type A and make sure we light torches daily, and others prefer to do that a few times a week. I have no problem with either as long as people are honest about it. The same goes for most other complaints I've seen. If you don't like the way someone has chosen to do something, remove them. They'll live, and so will you. Personally, I like the wishingtorch community. I enjoy seeing some of the silly messages people post (Skwerrel and the frog comes to mind lol). I love seeing friends get to share the accomplishment of breeding a difficult Ethereal or the elusive Blabbit. I like interacting with people who love the same silly little game that I do :)