Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-25258217-20150429180219

There are several threads for those requesting friends to light torches. Some of those are new and some are old.

One tip for those requesting friends to light torches: You also need to light the new friend torches in return.

With hundreds of friends, it takes me quite a while to light all torches. I usually do that in stages. I have about 6 pages in the morning, some in the afternoon and some at night. It's a lot of work but I do it because I committed to do so when I added that friend to my list.

While going through the list of friends today, I realized that a great majority of the new friends I have added or who have added me via the lists found on the Wiki are not lighting back. I've had people I've lit over 150 times without one single torch lighting in return.

Others have lit my torches a few times in exchange for hundreds of my torch lighting.

I'm sorry to say that I have stopped lighting those who don't reciprocate. I rather put effort on lighting and liking the islands of those who are fair to light back. I'm not even saying one for one. I've set those who have made a fair attempt at keeping up the lighting as favorites and will be focusing on them first.

Give and take is just the right thing to do.

Chris 